Speaking of mindsets……..the term “mindless” comes into play, perhaps escalated in todays society as a result of social media. : having or showing no ability to think, feel, or respond. : showing no use of intelligence or thought: having no purpose. : requiring very little attention or thought.Yep, a big part of one's experience is how do you think of it. And what do you pay attention to. And in that, you see what you want to see, or expect to see.
Many mind sets are such that they have to find all the bad before they can fix it. So they are on constant hyper vigelence looking for 'the evil' to attack it. While that goes on, they seem to make every move toward having everything broken.
An opposite is one that everything is fine and rosy. And of course they are constantly finding joy, but may be blind to things that need attention. While that goes on, they are making choices in small and big ways that do improve thier lives. But are they negelecting the gorilla on the roof?
But hopefully both groups do not have an undercurrent of denile.
Every person has some mix of the above. And all people need to regulate themselves as thier first priority. A sad percentage seem to miss that boat.
An interesting experiment is putting a person in a room with small color dots of all colors but that are offset towards grey. Then the process is,
taking a person and telling them there is only yellow and red in a room. Then send them in for 30 seconds. Then when they look and come back out and ask if they saw any blue. They often say they found little to none of it.
Take a second person and say the room has blue in it all over the place, go in and come back out and yep they saw it every where.
I like to preset myself that I'm very happy with what I got, but that there is opportunity in all corners of life.
I do have to remind myself constantly that all presentations from all medias, especially the news, are only small extracts from experiences and not the whole. They are infact what that source wanted to show you, and they have thier own reasons, maybe not in alinement to your benefit.
Ever notice how there seems to be very few examples of a selected car model, then if you buy one they seem to be everywhere?