Aaron, first off our thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. Please take your time and worry about yourself and the decisions that lie ahead of you for the time being. Don't worry about us! Just the fact that you are allowing us to be a part of this journey is a great honor. If you've spent any time at all here, you can probably tell that we can worry about ourselves and each other without a problem. If and when you need or want help with a memorial, all you need to do is ask. I probably wouldn't be the one to ask to organize anything, but I will gladly support what you and your family decide upon. Welcome, and know that we are here for you in any way we can help.